Tina asks: "I've been a man dating, just told me he loves me (3 days)." Today I get a call, whether if I know about computers. I called back and said no, not really. He tells me his computer does not, someone in "hacked" it and I was the only person in the House! I told him I would never do. "He will believe me."
Thank you for your dating question Tina.Es is easy, but good, because it covers, how much you someone early - trust in a relationship committed often just comes with readers like you.
First, some basic information. A person must be a computer in your home to hack. It is very much is common for hackers, objective people on the Internet and even on the rampant viruses, Trojans and you can wear other nasties just by surfing the Web or click on a link touch.Beschuldigen from hacking seems strange, and tells me that your partner one not much knowledge about how these kinds of things work. about .com's Guide to the Internet for beginners has huge category dedicated to such information and discussions: viruses, spyware, hacking, fraud and identity theft and an excellent article on the subject called "Help!" "I think I was hacked!"
Now, you can not change your partner behavior or how he responds to his computer fall prey to a hacker. If he don't think there is not much you can do to convince him.
It's time for you, doesn't mean your relationship with überprüfen.Nur because the man said he loves that he trusts you (unfortunately) - and he either was not tell his actions trust is paranoid, or both. A loving partner could upset in the circumstances, and can even angry at you and blame you - but love means listening to your partner and hear what you say. Most sensible people, after a bit, calm would your unjustified accusation to realize and apologize. From the sounds of it is not your partner.
You want some difficult questions must now, those issues where, how you feel and want what you want to with someone to be that automatically takes him damage to do?Can a relationship with someone more that do not trust or believe you? if he now - three days after the confession of love for you - trust not when he is?Can he?This trust issue is really about you, or the walls are finally coming down and his true self shine through?
I cannot answer these questions for you, because I not enough information - but you müssen.Ihr Partner to convince that are trusted, here, but focusing more on yourself and your needs, and if your guy the guy give the answer is.
What do you say love readers? what would you do in this situation? have a suggestion for TINA?
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