Lindsay asks: "I met only this man seems entirely on paper." Four dates in what seemed like a fairy tale, and he told me he is a recovering alcoholic. He goes to AA meetings every week and says he has no decline in three had to drink. I want to throw something amazing away... He seems really perfect. But I'm not sure I want to get involved even if he has admitted it with an alcoholic. "Help?"
In short: I think it depends on your situation. Please that I say your situation and not the man you are dating. Why? Because it is the only person that can control or change. I do not know your history, nor aware I am if you or another family member ever struggling with an addiction has. But many, many people who were raised in families where alcohol was a problem that you are attracted to Alcoholics in its romantic relations. Or people where alcohol or drugs, abuse, drugs) cause problems. Now this is not always the case and I am also not say that any of this is your fault.It is nicht.Aber is something to think about will be aware of and act if its something in your life.
Dating a with any kind of disease is not easy, but the first step is the same: inform sich.Erfahren everything can see how they affect the date of alcoholism can you and explore preemptive support for, if it does. Give it a few weeks or even months make a decision whether dating is an alcoholic, can do or if its a deal breaker for you.
What say you love readers?Would date an alcoholic? do you have?Are an alcoholic? what factors should take into account Lindsay and what do you recommend?
Related: Related: why do I need help? is the alcoholic!, Al Anon/Alateen, detachment.
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